SmutSwap 2018
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aurillyGeneral Notes
— I'm fairly 'vanilla'. I want my ships to like each other and get off, even if they're simultaneously angsty because of whatever baggage or feelings or cracked-out scenario. But vanilla doesn't have to mean schmoopy and gentle and perfect and missionary (though it can, and that's nice, too). Vanilla sex can be rough, messy, awkward, externally forced, or goofy, too!
— I don’t care who tops or bottoms in m/m (I also enjoy switching!).
— One or two “You wanna...?” or “Can I...?”s sprinkled into the proceedings is okay, especially when people respond non-verbally by going for it. But more explicit conversation about consent ruins the mood for me. People reciprocating actions is all the confirmation I need.
Sex-Related DNWs
— People saying "I've got you" during sex
— "cum"/"cumming" spellings
— A/B/O and anything related to heats or ruts or knots
— pregnancy or even the threat of it
— condoms (I just assume unsafe sex won't result in pregnancy)
— BDSM or safewords
— demeaning dirty talk
— "daddy" or "mommy" kink
— noncon within my ship (but an external party/force raping, coercing, humiliating, or forcing the requested ship to fuck is fine before my ship’s happy ending)
Stuff I Like
— Locations: carriages; outdoors; shower/bath or sauna sex; trains; stables; bedrooms; up against the wall; bent over or (even better!) splayed out on a desk/table; trying to keep quiet during semi-public sex
— Experience Levels: experienced/inexperienced; first time bottoming; loss of virginity; didn’t expect/want to like it so much; didn’t think he could come from [x]; A being patient with B's clumsy but enthusiastic blowjobs
— Affection: drawn-out makeouts; kissing each other all over; rough but loving; hand-holding during sex; face touching; neck kissing; hair stroking; nosing against another person’s skin; laughing, chatting or teasing during sex
— Stuff to Do: handjobs, blowjobs, cunnilingus, PIV, or anal (last one only for m/m); manhandling/shows of athleticism during sex; hair pulling; finger sucking; frottage; held down and fucked hard; licking over underwear; praise kink; shaving each other; A very calmly and assertively telling B what he intends to do to, and then doing it
— A Lot of Feelings: A so desperately into B that he wants to keep going even though he isn't enjoying their first time very much; trying not to let on how much they feel (and failing miserably); making the last time count (which turns out not to be the last time)
— Learning About Each Other or Themselves: figuring out what each other likes; sex that's a little awkward or painful, but everyone still has fun; normally collected characters losing control; inexperienced participants who are neither shy nor passive; internally-driven embarrassment or shame about what they want or how desperate they are for it (that hopefully their partner gets them over)
— Clothing-related: slowly undressing each other; passionate and hasty undressing; frustration with complicated garments; one clothed/one not; clothing pulled out of the way; period clothing; neckties and the many uses thereof
— Climaxes: multiple orgasms; lots of come; feeling someone come inside; come as lube; coming too soon; coming untouched; feeling partner get hard again while still inside
— I'm fairly 'vanilla'. I want my ships to like each other and get off, even if they're simultaneously angsty because of whatever baggage or feelings or cracked-out scenario. But vanilla doesn't have to mean schmoopy and gentle and perfect and missionary (though it can, and that's nice, too). Vanilla sex can be rough, messy, awkward, externally forced, or goofy, too!
— I don’t care who tops or bottoms in m/m (I also enjoy switching!).
— One or two “You wanna...?” or “Can I...?”s sprinkled into the proceedings is okay, especially when people respond non-verbally by going for it. But more explicit conversation about consent ruins the mood for me. People reciprocating actions is all the confirmation I need.
Sex-Related DNWs
— People saying "I've got you" during sex
— "cum"/"cumming" spellings
— A/B/O and anything related to heats or ruts or knots
— pregnancy or even the threat of it
— condoms (I just assume unsafe sex won't result in pregnancy)
— BDSM or safewords
— demeaning dirty talk
— "daddy" or "mommy" kink
— noncon within my ship (but an external party/force raping, coercing, humiliating, or forcing the requested ship to fuck is fine before my ship’s happy ending)
Stuff I Like
— Locations: carriages; outdoors; shower/bath or sauna sex; trains; stables; bedrooms; up against the wall; bent over or (even better!) splayed out on a desk/table; trying to keep quiet during semi-public sex
— Experience Levels: experienced/inexperienced; first time bottoming; loss of virginity; didn’t expect/want to like it so much; didn’t think he could come from [x]; A being patient with B's clumsy but enthusiastic blowjobs
— Affection: drawn-out makeouts; kissing each other all over; rough but loving; hand-holding during sex; face touching; neck kissing; hair stroking; nosing against another person’s skin; laughing, chatting or teasing during sex
— Stuff to Do: handjobs, blowjobs, cunnilingus, PIV, or anal (last one only for m/m); manhandling/shows of athleticism during sex; hair pulling; finger sucking; frottage; held down and fucked hard; licking over underwear; praise kink; shaving each other; A very calmly and assertively telling B what he intends to do to, and then doing it
— A Lot of Feelings: A so desperately into B that he wants to keep going even though he isn't enjoying their first time very much; trying not to let on how much they feel (and failing miserably); making the last time count (which turns out not to be the last time)
— Learning About Each Other or Themselves: figuring out what each other likes; sex that's a little awkward or painful, but everyone still has fun; normally collected characters losing control; inexperienced participants who are neither shy nor passive; internally-driven embarrassment or shame about what they want or how desperate they are for it (that hopefully their partner gets them over)
— Clothing-related: slowly undressing each other; passionate and hasty undressing; frustration with complicated garments; one clothed/one not; clothing pulled out of the way; period clothing; neckties and the many uses thereof
— Climaxes: multiple orgasms; lots of come; feeling someone come inside; come as lube; coming too soon; coming untouched; feeling partner get hard again while still inside